Yet another Birthday!!

          Never wanted to share this day..May be after 10 or 30 yrs I come back and I view this post..I will feel happy about this day :) My 23 rd B'day and the 1st one after joining Infy .. Dats all.. :) I'm leaving memories here for me..as my B'day present :D

I miss "LIFE"..

       I miss life the way it used to be. The way it was when I was always happy. To see a frown would be weird. I really miss those days. I miss being able to trust people. I miss being able to know that I really had a friend who truely cared about me no matter what happened . But those days are no more. Now I still smile but i'm not always happy. Now I can't truley trust anybody. Now it seems like I dont really have anybody who would care no matter what..Everyone looks for their own happiness and nobody even understands  what the other is feeling rite now.

I guess I just need to get used to reality. But its just so hard. Life isn't easy anymore. Life is just Home->Office->Home. Life is full of lack of trust. Life is full of mistakes.

I wish I was in school again.
  

Marriage actually!!!

Marriage is an important part of everyone's life..It's something which can become your happiness and support in the journey of life .We know everyone end up in marrying the wrong people,often deluding ourselves into believing that we may be compatible or crazy in love...

An interesting article which i happen to read few days back ,i'm sharing it here.
"Finding the right person is possible only by knowing the character of the person..It's just not enough to say that the person is good and hence is worthy of marriage.Character like humble,kind,responsible and happy will seem to be old fashioned or 'boring' nowadays especially since everyone is more concerned about the other person being beautiful/handsome ,but these are the traits that hold good in the long run.A lot of grief can be avoided if one is just committed to selflessly giving rather than simply taking.Most importantly what i feel is the person you marry is "happy".If your partner is not cheerful,they wont be able to make you happy either. Another important requirement is understanding the emotional needs of each other though it may differ for men and women..As time goes by we all end up in trying to get the other to think along our lines.Fulfilling needs is distinct from being truly connected.Deeper connections are formed when two people manage to come together on a firm foundation based on common beliefs,likes and dislikes..the sole reason why one is forever searching a soul mate-deeper emotional need. Ask yorself: Do you respect and admire each other?Are you impressed with each other in a deeper and meaningful way?Will he/she be with you in a moment of crisis?Can you really believe in what he/she says?Do you feel protected and safe with each other?Can you be completely open with each other? One of the reasons why some people are emotionally unavailable is because they are caught in a traingle of affection b/w the spouse and the family..or a member who may be dependent on them......."...........etc etc etc..

Hope it will help some. :)
Smile.............